I imagine quite a few of you are saying “of course we should” in answer to this question – well, I think we would all like to dance with Mr B – but in this instance I’m talking about dancing at an Alfie concert. Alfie is well known for urging audiences to stand up and dance at concerts but what is the right thing to do if you want to dance and no one else does? If you are on the front row and dancing, how does that affect others behind you? Alternatively, if you have paid a lot of money to sit on the front row, how do you feel if a lot of people come and stand in front of you for half the concert? I’m not sure I have the answers to these conundrums but here we go anyway.
In his recent UK tour, Alfie several times, at a certain point in the show, asked us all to dance. We were left in no doubt that he wanted us to dance as he urged us to “get up, on your feet, that means stand up”! Now I didn’t need much encouragement to get up and dance but in some cases it can be a bit awkward if you stand up and look around and….you are the only one standing! Particularly if you are near the front – it takes a bit of nerve to keep on standing when all around are sitting and looking a bit disapproving. I’ll admit, at some shows I was a bit like a yo-yo!
Of the shows I attended on this most recent tour, the best dancing crowd was at the O2 in London; being halfway back on the arena floor I was well placed to see that a lot of the audience was up and dancing for most of the show after Alfie had asked us to dance. However, the next night, and last night of the tour, Cardiff, was a totally different kettle of fish. Although the audience responded well when Alfie first asked us to dance it was short lived as most sat down immediately after that song (Volare, I think) and the majority didn’t get up again. They made up for this by being the best singing crowd – Wales really is a nation of fabulous singers.
So, when I asked you all for your comments on this contentious subject, the main response was that if Alfie asks, then you should definitely dance if you are able. Having said that, a fair amount of people did raise the point about the possibly blocked view of those behind you – some respondents had been stuck behind a lot of standing people and ended up seeing not much at all. Fans unable to stand / dance are more likely than others to face this problem. They don’t want to spoil the enjoyment of others but they do want to be able to see Alfie too.
And there we have the conundrum: how to enjoy yourself and dance whilst not spoiling the enjoyment of others. Even after researching this post and talking to lots of fellow fans I still don’t have the definitive answer. I love to dance at a concert so if appropriate I will do so although I’d like to think I wasn’t spoiling it for anyone else at the same time. I suppose the only way to ensure that is to get everyone else to stand up at the same time – answers on a postcard please as to how we can do that! Perhaps it would help if we were allowed to dance in the aisles or at the front, something that happened at a few venues on the Storyteller tour but not this time around. Then again…what about that question I posed at the top, what if you had a front row ticket and everyone came and stood in front of you? You might still have a good view being at the front but then again…and there we are going round in circles again. Did I mention I don’t have the answers????!!!! We will probably have this discussion for as long as Alfie urges his audiences to get up and dance so feel free to add your thought to the comments box.
One reason for dancing, given time and time again, is that Alfie so clearly appreciates and loves seeing his fans dancing and having a good time. I have to agree with this – in London, he was thrilled to see a group of fans standing and dancing through the Quadrophenia songs in the encore. Additionally, where possible, he gets fans on stage to dance with him (this happened in Bournemouth) and at the Huawei Winter Concert at the Royal Festival Hall in December 2013 he pulled a girl out of the stalls to dance on stage with him as she was almost the only one dancing. The main set finished with almost half the audience on stage (thanks Linda for sharing):
Glory Glory Hallelujah, from Trust was only heard a handful of times on Alfie’s recent tour but it was certainly the song that got people to their feet…mostly! When I first heard the song, I was dancing round the kitchen to it and every time I’ve heard it since I have to dance so no way was I sitting down on the tour! It’s a song I just HAVE to dance to, and I know I’m not alone in that opinion!
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Alfie needs to organise the concert better. He should follow his friend Michael Ball, who also enjoys seeing people up dancing BUT he puts all that type of song in one group towards the end, so people know what to expect, when. It’s easier to accept a slightly blocked view if you know the time is limited.
Agree with Pauline. At the Storyteller concert we were standing for a couple of songs but when everyone sat down, one woman continued to stand, waving her scarf which was really annoying for people sitting behind her. I remember at the time thinking I was glad I wasn’t in the front row as there was so many people standing in front of the people there.
I love Alfie’s version of Glory, Glory and that’s definitely one to stand up for. Loved it when he sung it at Newcastle and was looking forward to it at Glasgow but it wasn’t sung there as that’s when he announced his Quadrophenia news.
It’s a difficult one and no matter what you won’t please everyone. I think you just have to see what everyone round you is doing and go with the flow.
I think the best case scenario is when we are able to move to the front of the stage or in the aisles and dance, but only towards the end of the concert when there really is no alternative cos we are all really buzzing by then! I wouldn’t be the first to stand because I’m always aware of those behind, but if the people immediately in front of me stand, then I can’t see a thing ( being on the small side!) so I’m afraid I have to join in then.
LOVED the Huawei concert and was up on stage (Lindajaye your enthusiasm is infectious) but after seeing myself vowed never to do that again……..well, maybe!
When Alfie says get up and dance I don’t have to asked twice!! I’m often one of the first to get up and boogie!! However last year I saw things from a completely different perspective. I bought my husband really expensive tickets to see The Eagles at the O2 arena we were in the 3rd row front centre stalls. A couple directly in front of us were up and down waving there arms about throughout the evening, my husband isn’t good at standing so our view and enjoyment of the concert was completely spoiled…. Maybe in the future I’ll be a little more considerate to those behind me….or at least I’ll try!!
As you say Jane, there is no definitive answer…..
It’s really hard isn’t it – all the feedback so far can see both sides LOL so we’re a fair minded lot xxx